July 22, 2013

• Multiple Personalities!

  I always ask friends who know me in real life if how I come off in xanga is how I come off in real life. 

  The other day a friend was telling me that between me in real life, in text messages, and on FB, she would think I were 3 different people. I asked her how.

  1. In real life I am very calm. It’s rare that I get upset or excited over anything. My demeanor is very lady like, polite, and guarded and I rarely let loose to do anything crazy. In one on one situations, I am chatty but my voice is low, lower than how you would imagine it would be when you see me. So I sound serious and almost cynical at times. 

  2. In text, I am very blunt and abrupt. It’s because I hate texting! I only text when I absolutely need to, and I don’t spend any extra time on the please and thanks you and whatever sugary words people use. Sometimes I re-read it and realize how bitchy I sound so I put a smiley face or a lol to lighten up the mood.

  3. On facebook, I am ALL positive and happy cherry funny and never have an opinion. It’s because my FB is REALLY public, my clients and family have access to it so I want to put out a positive image. I don’t want anyone related to my business to think I have an attitude or that I think lowly of anyone nor do I want to offend anyone (unless something obvious like rapists). I work in the wedding industry, we’re all smiles ALL THE TIME

  I think the only people who I REALLY act like myself around is my mom and my husband (even before we were married, he was the ONLY boyfriend that made me feel comfortable enough to  act this way around). With them, I am SUPER emotional and irrational and irritable and happy and silly and demanding LAZY. I dance around to no music, I sing like a mad woman, I cry like a baby, I complain like a lil bitch, I get super affectionate like a child. Won always asks me if my mom of any of friends know I am like this and how he wants to film me someday. My mom asks me if my husband knows I’m like this. LOL

  My in laws, no doubt hear how I am when I am around my husband so they make comments about why I can talk a mile a minute with him and laugh like mad but the second one of them appears, I get super quiet and polite again. Even though they are now my family, I doubt I will ever show this side of me to them. I don’t even show it to my brothers nor did I ever to my dad. I think when I have kids, they will see it. And hopefully they will be as crazy as me so when Won comes home from work he has a zoo at home of his wife and kids singing and dancing like mad peoples. Hahahaha

  In general as a person, I am pretty happy.  I do get upset very easily but I tell myself that people will be who they are and whatever issues they have is really their own issue and I need to remove myself from it and go on to enjoy my life. As for shit that is my own fault, I tell myself it won’t matter in 5 years and so I need to just let it go and enjoy the next day. Since taking on this perspective, I am generally an even happier person. 

  And here are some more wedding pictures from my friends!

   

  Our table pieces… I tried to make it very modern despite being at an asian restaurant. We got lazy about the centerpeices… Flowers are a bitch to do cuz you can’t do them before, you literally have to work on them the night before and everyone’s already tired and irritable and I just didn’t give a shit anymore. Oh well… next time we have a wedding (10 years anniversary, Won promised) I will hire a florist to do it. I thought it would be fun to do and I can live out my secret dream of being a florist, but it’s really not fun at all given the time restraint and the fact that I don’t know shit about flowers nor flower arranging. 

  
  Our sweetheart table and very expensive dinner that we did not eat. A lot of people said the food was amazing… guess I’ll just have to take their word for it. 

  
  Me being a bomb ass MC for our wedding because I hate it when people give long speeches and jibber jabber about nothing for ever. We just wanted to get this party started. I got a lot of compliments (don’t know if they were sarcastic or not) for giving the shortest and sweetest introduction speech, ever. And me making Won hold my bouquet and stare at me lovingly. Then he got on and told everyone that alcohol is non returnable so they better drink up -____-

  
  Me giving Won the finger that means.. if you so much as get that frosting even NEAR my face, I will KEEEEEEEEEEEEEL you. So he did the next best thing, and dropped that shit down my boobs!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! SO EMBARASSING!! He claims it was on accident but the way he went for it with his mouth you would thought he planned it all -____-  I got him back on his nose and I was going to be sexy and lick it off his nose but I was too short so we just left it like that.

  Side note: I wore a shit ton of lipstick that day in BRIGHT HOT PINK so everytime we kissed, Won had BRIGHT HOT PINK lipstick too. Hahahahaha

  
  Slow dancing at our pink and chandelier themed wedding. Side note: We didn’t know how to slow dance despite all the YouTube videos we watched so after like 30 seconds I had to try to catch our DJ’s eyes to be like.. “cut. the. music.” with my eyes… it worked! and he got the party started with some party music instead. *Whew*

       
  Won getting super hot & sexy and taking off his clothes. Our friend (the one who told me about my multiple personality) awkwardy snapped a quick photo with us while the restaurant was breaking down after the party ended. Then that’s me sitting at the entrance yelling at everyone to go the eff home cuz the party is over and I’m tired and wanted to go home to sleep. But everyone kept mingling and wouldn’t leave because they loved each other so much.. Hahahahahahahah

   

   

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