August 22, 2012
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Wedding Entry #1
It’s been a what.. whole 3 weeks since I got proposed to. And the excitement from my friends have been an explosion of wonderful emotions. I sometimes feel others are more happy and enthusiastic than we are! Lol! I’m loving all of it. All 500 people who liked, commented, texted, emailed, called me. My friends who I have not seen in years have suddenly started taking me out to lunch and it seems no one gets tired of hearing the details even though I try hard to not talk about it because I want to know what’s going on in their lives! I’m actually pretty interested in what everyone is doing for a living and all the amazing med, law, and grad school they are going to start next month.
Anyhow, xanga is wonderful in that people CHOOSE to read it so I can talk about me all I want!These past few weeks have been so much wedding planning already. Hahahah can you believe it?! I’ve chosen my super secret gang of bridesmaids and they have been taking me wedding dress shopping and flower shopping. Dalia’s are going to be my wedding flowers seeing as they are so cute and in season this time of year, next year. We’ve even started planning out our day’s time-line…AND WE DON’T EVEN HAVE A FREAKING DAY SET YET!That’s kind of what happens when all your friends work in the wedding industry.The surprising thing is that the dresses and designers that we’ve been looking at have all been much less than what I would have thought. So I’ve decided I will have TWO wedding dresses! We started out at the cheaper places first and our appointments at the more expensive designers will be in the next few weeks. So maybe next time I write xanga I won’t be so damn happy anymore and can only afford half a wedding dress. BUT Won Choe said that he doesn’t want me to buy something I like because it’s affordable, that if I LOVE something and it’s more than I was expecting to spend that is okay! He will suffer a little extra for me to have something I LOVE!Which brings me to another point in which my oldest brother gave me a super long lecture about how I am so lucky to have a guy like Won that is willing to suffer and sacrifice his own wants just to give me what I want. And that because I am in such a position, that I should think more for Won and give up what I want so Won can have at least something too every once in a while.Oh and I’ve been consciously eating much healthier and (thinking about) exercising because I want to lose weight and be a skinny bitch for my wedding. It must be working because my engagement ring keeps sliding off my fingers that I have to wear it on my middle finger. Must resize!I think I want a baby soon after our wedding. Okay that is all. Good night!!
Comments (11)
Can’t wait for you two to have babies!
You’re so cute! Love that your happiness is all over your blog now. Keep on writing!
I can’t help but imagine the biggest smile on your face as you wrote this entry. Happy shopping and planning!
I love your entries. They’re always so positive and happy
Hooray for wedding planning! You sound so happy!! <3 LOVE it!
Good choice – going from cheap to expensive! My sister tried on a stunning Mischka Badgley dress which was $8,000 and sadly had to say no to it =(
oh, girl…don’t go “gift of the magi” on me and then no one has what they want…..He is happy when you’re happy!!! So ignore your brother this once…..you can make up for your fiance’s suffering later and in some other way.
And don’t resize your ring….your weight is naturally what it is….wedding exercise won’t last….not that I don’t have faith in you…but you’re not a fatty by any stretch of the imagination. Unless it’s easy to size up….I don’t know how that works, so that’s the only reason why I say not to resize down.
Baby soon after is the ideal scenario, so if you can afford to do that considering your career/finances, then go for it!
And you see that? “friends you haven’t seen in years!!” How will they find you if your name changes? The link is broken and takes effort to re-link!
Congratulations, and may I wish you all the best wishes
Congrats Van!
congrats!!
I literally lol’d about the baby comment. You guys would make cute babies.